Selasa, 01 Maret 2011

The Meaning Of Love

 Love love and love. yes, five-letter familiar in this world.Attraction between two beings, a feeling of mutual admiration and love each other.
This happens in times puberty, or where the period between the mid-teens to the adult.In this moments is reasonable to have its name fall in love.But in this era, love had been mischaracterized. Even today the kids a new elementary school  had already become something they are not experiencing love.But curiosity that triggered them to do so. The love that they know is what is seen d they hear, embrace and even kiss. What happens to them at this time with love misinterpreted, with many going some cases, who will be responsible for all this.we could only see the future, this world would carry around later, with the generation whose mind has been soiled.
Love is a feeling that wants to share together or a feeling of affection towards someone. Another opinion, love is an action / active activity by man against another object, such self-sacrifice, empathy, attention, give love, help, obey the word, to follow, obedient, and willing to do whatever the desired object.
Love is one word which contain adequate meaning of complex feelings.
Can be natural all beings. The use of the word love is also influenced during development. Word change its meaning according to the responses, understanding and use within the state, the position and the generation of different communities
The use of the word love (Love) is used in all the practice as follows:
   
1. Love is more inclined to the romantic, romance and lust, Eros
   
2. Unfortunately that is more inclined to friends and family, philia
   
3. Love is more inclined to family and God, agape
   
4. The spirit of the homeland is more inclined to patriotism, nationalism and narcissism

Love is a feeling of sympathy that involves deep emotion. According to Erich Fromm, there are four requirements to achieve love, namely:

   
1. Feeling
   2. Introduction
   3. Responsibility
   4. Attention
   5. Mutual respect
Erich Fromm in his best-selling book (the art of loving) states that the four symptoms: Care, Responsibility, Respect, Knowledge (CRRK), appear all in a balanced way in the person who loves. Nonsense, if someone says to love children but never care and no responsibility on the child. While the responsibility and care without respect and without any real sense would want to know more in plunging the parents, teachers, clergy, etc. on an authoritarian attitude.
Like many types of lovers, there are many kinds of love. Love was in throughout all of human culture. Because of this cultural difference, then the definition of love is hard to set. See the Sapir-Whorf hypothesis.

Expressions of love may include the love of 'soul' or mind, love of law and organizations, love, loss, love nature, love food, love money, love learning, love power, love, fame, etc.. Love is more directed to the abstract concept, easier experienced than explained.

Some elements are often present in interpersonal love:

     Affection: respect for others.
     Altruism: a non-selfish attention to others (which is very rare to find nowadays).
     Reciprocation: the love of mutual benefit (not exploit each other.)
     Commitment: a desire to perpetuate the love, strong determination in a relationship.
     Emotional intimacy: sharing emotions and feeling.
     
Kinship: family bonds.
     Passion: Desire and / or sexual desire that tends to the passionate.
     Physical intimacy: sharing of life close to each other physically, including sexual relations.
     Self-interest: the love that expect personal benefits, tend to be selfish and there is a desire to take advantage of the couple.
     
Service: desire to help and / or serve.
    Homosexual love and sexual desire in people or the same sex, especially for men. For women called Lesbian (lesbian).


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