kisah inspiratif kumar ( Slumdog millionaire)

Kumar atau namanya Sushil kumar adalah seorang pria yang berasal dari negara termiskin india, bihar. Sehari-harinya kumar pria yang berusia 26 tahun ini bekerja sebagai pegawai negeri dikota motihari, bagian kota bihar di India timur.Pendapatan yang ia dapatkan sebagai pegawai sekitar US$120 atau sekitar Rp.1,1jt. Pendapatan itu sangat minim untuk kehidupan sebulan kedepannya. Maka dari itu, dia juga bekerja sampingan sebagai guru lest private.Sungguh bertanggung jawab.

Kumar memang menggemari kuis WWTBAM, tetapi caranya untuk bisa menonton acara tersebut tidaklah mudah. Sebagai anak buruh tani, keluarga Kumar tidak mampu membeli televisi sehingga ia harus menontonnya di rumah tetangga. Saat menyaksikan kuis tersebut, Kumar sering sekali menjawab dengan benar sehingga tetangga-tetangganya mendorong dia mencoba peruntungan sebagai peserta.

Dan  akhirnya dia lolos dari seleksi yang diadakan oleh televisi terkenal di Mumbai,india ,Kaun banega crorepati, yang dipandu oleh bintang bollywood terkenal Amitabh bachchan.

Ketika sudah menjadi peserta kuis, target Kumar tidaklah muluk-muluk. Bisa mendapat hadiah 50 ribu dolar atau 100 ribu dolar saja sudah cukup. Karena itulah, tatkala menghadapi pertanyaan ke-13, ia yang sudah mengantungi hadiah 200 ribu dolar berpikir untuk mundur. Namun takdir menggariskan Kumar terus melaju setelah berpikir keras.

Menghadapi pertanyaan yang terakhir, dengan tenang kumar akhirnya mengetahui kalau dua pilihan salah dan tinggal dua pilihan yang mendekati benar.Dengan sebuah bantuan yang memungkinkan seorang peserta untuk memberi dua jawaban alternatif, Kumar pun sukses melewati hadangan itu dan membawa check senilai US$1JT. Penyelenggara kuis menolak mengungkapkan apa pertanyaan tersebut dan hanya memberi petunjuk bahwa soal itu terkait dengan sejarah.

Pengakuan sang adik sudhir kumar,abangnya memang telah mempersiapkan dengan baik. Kumar mendapatkan informasi , pengetahuan ini karena dia pendengar setia BBC dalam bahasa hindi.

Uang yang didapat setara dengan Rp.8.8M, dia gunakan mengambil kursus persiapan ujian PNS sehingga ia bisa mendapatkan posisi yang baik dan bergengsi.

Kumar juga berencana buat membelikan istrinya sebuah rumah, melunasi utang orang tuanya dan membantu memodali empat saudaranya untuk membuka usaha kecil.

Masih ada lagi, Kumar juga tidak lupa dengan asal usulnya dan ia berencana untuk membangun perpustakaan di Motihari sehingga memungkinkan anak-anak di sana memperoleh pengetahuan yang sejak dulu ia damba-dambakan.

Luar biasa!

Salam damai, Indonesia

 

The Meaning Of Love

 Love love and love. yes, five-letter familiar in this world.Attraction between two beings, a feeling of mutual admiration and love each other.
This happens in times puberty, or where the period between the mid-teens to the adult.In this moments is reasonable to have its name fall in love.But in this era, love had been mischaracterized. Even today the kids a new elementary school  had already become something they are not experiencing love.But curiosity that triggered them to do so. The love that they know is what is seen d they hear, embrace and even kiss. What happens to them at this time with love misinterpreted, with many going some cases, who will be responsible for all this.we could only see the future, this world would carry around later, with the generation whose mind has been soiled.
Love is a feeling that wants to share together or a feeling of affection towards someone. Another opinion, love is an action / active activity by man against another object, such self-sacrifice, empathy, attention, give love, help, obey the word, to follow, obedient, and willing to do whatever the desired object.
Love is one word which contain adequate meaning of complex feelings. Can be natural all beings. The use of the word love is also influenced during development. Word change its meaning according to the responses, understanding and use within the state, the position and the generation of different communities
The use of the word love (Love) is used in all the practice as follows:
   1. Love is more inclined to the romantic, romance and lust, Eros
   2. Unfortunately that is more inclined to friends and family, philia
   3. Love is more inclined to family and God, agape
   4. The spirit of the homeland is more inclined to patriotism, nationalism and narcissism

Love is a feeling of sympathy that involves deep emotion. According to Erich Fromm, there are four requirements to achieve love, namely:

   1. Feeling
   2. Introduction
   3. Responsibility
   4. Attention
   5. Mutual respect
Erich Fromm in his best-selling book (the art of loving) states that the four symptoms: Care, Responsibility, Respect, Knowledge (CRRK), appear all in a balanced way in the person who loves. Nonsense, if someone says to love children but never care and no responsibility on the child. While the responsibility and care without respect and without any real sense would want to know more in plunging the parents, teachers, clergy, etc. on an authoritarian attitude.
Like many types of lovers, there are many kinds of love. Love was in throughout all of human culture. Because of this cultural difference, then the definition of love is hard to set. See the Sapir-Whorf hypothesis.

Expressions of love may include the love of 'soul' or mind, love of law and organizations, love, loss, love nature, love food, love money, love learning, love power, love, fame, etc.. Love is more directed to the abstract concept, easier experienced than explained.

Some elements are often present in interpersonal love:

     Affection: respect for others.
     Altruism: a non-selfish attention to others (which is very rare to find nowadays).
     Reciprocation: the love of mutual benefit (not exploit each other.)
     Commitment: a desire to perpetuate the love, strong determination in a relationship.
     Emotional intimacy: sharing emotions and feeling.
     Kinship: family bonds.
     Passion: Desire and / or sexual desire that tends to the passionate.
     Physical intimacy: sharing of life close to each other physically, including sexual relations.
     Self-interest: the love that expect personal benefits, tend to be selfish and there is a desire to take advantage of the couple.
     Service: desire to help and / or serve.
    Homosexual love and sexual desire in people or the same sex, especially for men. For women called Lesbian (lesbian).

Finding a life partner

Finding a life partner is in fact not an easy thing, not the kind of person that we like at first sight, but there are still many things to consider.Like of his family background, from a good family - whether or not as expected.
Finding a life partner that leads to happiness is important.
Here are some solutions,
1.Identification all the things that hold you find a partner


Keep mind that there are no more good people who could you take a date or just hope a miracle comes a man / woman the right to save you. Furthermore, to be honest with yourself about things that make it difficult to accept others. Does the rejection of the past, disappointment, betrayal makes you close your heart? Now it's time to open up and throw away the fears that exist.

2. Dispose of painful memories

So you can more clearly see there are people right, collect all the painful memories, anger and bad experiences from the past. Accept it as an experience and lesson. Now you should be able to determine what kind of life you expect, and the ideal partner that can make you come back excited.

3 Stop delaying happiness

Begin to achieve happiness now! Do not wait for happiness until you feel it's time. The phrase "I would be happy if you've got a better job" or "Having an ideal body first" make you feel more miserable and insecure.

When happy, positive energy will attract people around you to close and open relationship opportunities. Do not delay in obtaining happiness tomorrow, begin today.

4. Create the concept of relationship you desire

So as not trapped stigma of your past, create a definition and nature of the relationship fun version of your own. Keep in the heart of a relationship you want, like a healthy relationship, an ideal, loving, fun and support each other.